Just wanna destroy this shit. Politeness adheres to etiquette, and so does tolerance. How much bullshit can you hear before you speak up and say, "Well mb you're saying this because its the only way to fulfill your teenage desires of one-up manship". Angel this demon that, "this-is-our-own-unique-system-that-only-applies-to-us-you-wouldn't-understand" crap, I'm actually an animal in humans body, I wonder if you believe it away from an anonymous online forum.
People struggle. And they wouldn't be here if they they didn't actually test their meddle to sort fact from shit.